LGBTQ+ youth are more likely than their heterosexual and gender-conforming peers to experience abuse, bullying, and mental health issues. They are also over-represented in the child welfare system and are more likely to experience adverse outcomes, such as placement in group homes, multiple placements, and homelessness.

Many LGBTQ+ youth experience rejection before entering care and have trauma compounded further by discrimination, harassment, and even violence once in care. Child welfare professionals can adopt an ally mindset and use a trauma-informed approach to prevent discriminatory experiences, as well as ensure collaboration with partners.

LGBTQ stands for lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer. Q can also stand for questioning, especially in settings offering support for youth. LGBTQ or LGBTQ+ are recommended terms, with the “+” recognizing other non-straight and non-cisgender identities. Other acronyms and terminology like “gay community” may not reflect the full diversity of the community.

Tips for Child Welfare Professionals

  • Ask people to describe themselves before labeling them.
  • Use gender-neutral language (“someone special” versus boyfriend or girlfriend or address groups of people as “you all” instead of “you guys”).
  • Connect youth to positive role models in the LGBTQ+ community and to local providers.
  • Support youth’s self-expression through choices of clothing, jewelry, hairstyles, friends, and decorations.
  • Encourage participation in activities regardless of whether they are stereotypically male or female.
  • Avoid misgendering, by referring to someone as a gender other than the one they identify with.
  • Consider introducing yourself with your preferred pronouns (see below).
  • Speak up against offensive jokes and language. Explain what makes it harmful.

Pronouns

He/him/his/himself

They/them/theirs/themself

She/her/hers/herself

Ze/Zir/Zirs/Zirself

 

Providers and Resources

ALSO Youth

 

Advocacy Leadership Support Outreach (ALSO) Youth is a local provider that offers counseling, scholarships, community training, and events for youth, that even include a Prom.

The Trevor Project

Suicide prevention and crisis intervention organization that provides peer support, research, public education, and advocacy, as well as 24/7 counseling through calls, text, or chat.

PFLAG

Network of hundreds of chapters in their organization made of more than 250,000 members and supporters dedicated to supporting, educating, and advocating for LGBTQ+ people.

Human Rights Campaign Foundation Webinars

“All Children – All Families: Field Forward Webinars” series focused on LGBTQ+ topics related to child welfare.

 

RESOURCES:  Youth.gov, www.glaad.org, GLAAD Glossary